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"Your
fear is justified," she acknowledged. "Fathers have been known to snatch their
children from off the streets and hurriedly usher them into the shelter of the home
whenever the shadow of feminism has passed by."
"Since
I'm not a father," I responded, "this sort of anxiety has not been a part of my
experience. My concerns lie elsewhere."
"What's
the matter," Jennifer inquired, "don't you do windows?"
"As
infrequently as possible," I confessed. "When the panes of glass get too dirty,
I figure its easier just to replace them.
"Besides,"
I added, "I've been told, I forget by whom, that fixing things is more compatible
with male sensibilities than cleaning things is. I believe it has something to do with the
way in which men are supposed to go about bonding with the universe or vice versa.
"I hear
tools... masculine tools, of course... calling out to me all the time. 'David ... David. I
am for you; you are for me' Sometimes, this can be quite embarrassing."
I shrugged
in my best world-weary fashion: "What can I say? It's part of the price one has to
pay for being a man."
"So?"
Jennifer queried, "what is it about the f-word that you've always wanted to know but
were afraid to ask? Don't be shy, good sir.
"Madam
Jennifer sees all and hears all. She will endeavor to answer your most sensitive questions
with a wise equanimity."
"If you
can see that much," I pointed out, "you must be able to see what I would like to
ask."
"Of
course, I can," she responded, "but etiquette requires me to permit you to speak
of such matters in your own voice. In fact, this issue of voice touches on a theme of much
importance to some, and considerable debate to others, in the context of the f-word in
which you are interested."
"Oh!
Madam Jennifer," I remarked, "your prescience is truly remarkable. In speaking
of voice, you have raised an issue of considerable interest to me. Please, say more."
"Sir,
you have placed me in a most awkward position. You have requested me to say more about
voice, but consistency requires me to restrict myself to my voice only.
"I
cannot speak with the voice of feminism in general," Jennifer said, "but only
with the voice of feminism in particular. Do you feel you can be satisfied with the voice
of but one woman?"
"Because
the voice is yours," I replied, "I would be most content."
Jennifer
fluttered her eyes and murmured: "Your words, sir, give clear proof that chivalry has
not yet passed from our midst. I find your comportment most gallant."
I lowered my
head and kicked my foot in an 'aw, shucks, twern't nuthin' manner. With my gesture, the
curtain closed on a mixed period piece of female/male interaction.
Roughly
twenty or thirty seconds passed before Jennifer spoke again. Finally, she said: "Any
discussion of feminism is complicated by the fact that this one word has a multiplicity of
referents.
"For
instance, among other possibilities, there are: Marxist, lesbian, psychoanalytic, liberal,
post-modernist, radical, socialist, existential, and post-structural feminists.
Furthermore, even within each of these broad categories of approach, there are
considerable differences of hermeneutical perspective as one goes from woman to woman.
"Naturally,"
Jennifer pointed out, "the existence of such differences does not necessarily
indicate an absence of common ground among feminists. In fact, I believe all feminists
probably would point to their concrete, personal experiences as being the touchstone that
gives expression to the common themes of injustice, abuse, exploitation and oppression
which some of them contend has been perpetrated against women across virtually all
cultures and periods of history.
"As is
true, however, of most systems of critical thought, feminists differ among themselves
concerning their various manners of characterizing, investigating, interpreting,
evaluating and responding to the common themes that run through their individual
experiences. Different feminists identify different causes of, and strategies for dealing
with, injustices to women.
"For
example, there are many feminists who believe patriarchy, or the systemic oppression of
women by men, is the primary source of miseries, problems and difficulties in the lives of
women. There are many other feminists who focus on the fundamental role which they believe
gender and gendering play in enslaving both women and men to a false ideology concerning
human nature and possibility.
"Some
women believe feminism is about helping women to become more like men as far as issues of
autonomy, equality, freedom, rights, entitlements, and educational, as well as economic,
opportunities are concerned. Other women consider feminism to be about coming to
acknowledge, understand and protect the ways in which women are different from men,
biologically, epistemologically, existentially and socially.
"Among
feminists, one finds some women who give primary emphasis to the absolute priority of the
rights of individuals over the collective, in a variety of matters, including, but not
restricted to, issues such as abortion and reproductive freedom. There are other feminists
who give primary emphasis to the absolute priority of the rights of women as a general
category over the rights of individuals, especially men, in various matters such as
affirmative action.
"There
are some women who rally around the values of nurturing, bonding, reciprocity, community
and non-authoritarian egalitarianism which they believe are inherent in the idea of
sisterhood. On the other hand, there are other women who are critical of the notion of
sisterhood because they feel it contains no strategy for redressing current injustices
against women.
"Some
women consider feminism to provide a wonderful opportunity for analyzing the many
different kinds of disadvantageous power relationships existing between women and men,
both within as well as without the family. Such analysis is intended to demonstrate how
men use these relationships to control, manipulate, silence, exploit, oppress and abuse
women.
"Other
women are interested in feminism's potential for generating, and exploring, alternative
epistemologies. By examining alternative ways of engaging the problem of how human beings
come to know about themselves and the world, these feminists are attempting to challenge
the assumptions, methods and biases of various male approaches to epistemology which have
dominated most societies throughout history.
"There
are quite a few feminists who are opposed to pornography. Nonetheless, there also are some
feminists who, on various grounds, defend pornography.
"Some
feminists insist motherhood is a sign of the biological inequality between women and men
and constitutes one of the primary ways through which men control and oppress women. Other
feminists argue that all of the current interest in reproductive technology is an attempt
by men not only to remove women entirely from the equation, but to divest women of one of
the few sources of potential empowerment that they have over men.
"There
are some feminists who believe any woman who is willing to enter into a heterosexual
relationship cannot be considered a fully committed feminist. There also are some
feminists who maintain that biological, as opposed to ex utero, motherhood is a betrayal
of the cause of women.
"Some
of those who espouse this view argue that pregnancy is an expression of the male
colonization of a woman's body. I guess," Jennifer conjectured, "such women
consider these kinds of activities to be instances of sororitizing with an imperialist or
colonialist enemy."
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