A Matter of Trust
In the conclusion of
Inayat Khan's book: The Soul Whence
and Whither one finds the following:
"There are three ways in which people
trust. One is not to trust a person
until he proves in time to be trustworthy.
To those who trust in this way there will
be no satisfactory gain on this path, for
they will go on, like a spy, trying and
testing the Murshid with their eyes
focused downward. Hence they can only
see the imperfect self of the teacher,
and will never be able to see the beauty
of the perfect self, above and beyond the
limits of their view.
"The second way of trusting is to trust and
to continue to do so until the person is
proved unworthy of trust. Those who trust
in this way are better-suited than the first,
for if their trust makes their sight keen they
will have every prospect of development,
provided that intelligence guides them all
the way.
"But the third way of trusting a person is
to have an absolute trust, and to continue
until it be proved true. This is the trust
of devotees. It is these mureeds who make
the Murshid. It is such worshippers who
make God. 'By faith, a tongue is produced
from the rock, and it speaks to us as God,
but when faith is lacking, even God, the
Eternal Being, is as dead as a rock.' The
word of the Murshid is as useless to the
doubting mind as a remedy to the unbelieving
patient."
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The foregoing quote from the aforementioned
book operates with an unstated assumption --
namely, that any Murshid with whom one is
contemplating taking initiation actually
is an authentic teacher -- for that would
be the only condition under which the
foregoing advice would constitute sound
counsel. Unfortunately, this is precisely the
issue which needs to be questioned, because,
in point of fact, and as many have noted,
authentic teachers and charlatans don't
necessarily have some identifying mark
stamped on their forehead for all to readily
see which gives indisputable proof about who
is the genuine article and who is counterfeit.
To have absolute faith in an alleged teacher
just because someone else considers that
individual to be a Murshid, or because the
so-called shaykh considers himself or herself
to be a pir or murshid is to assume one's
conclusions without benefit of any evidence,
reflection, or critical examination whatsoever --
surely, this is the sort of mind-set through
which we end up with, among other things,
suicide bombers killing innocent people, or
people being sexually exploited by spiritually
abusive teachers, or seekers having to pay for
so-called Sufi guidance, or misguided individuals
being induced to participate in armed jihad
because some nabob, somewhere, has issued a
fatwa or legal opinion which has all the binding
authority of cheese.
I was going to post something in response to
the foregoing quote from the Inayat Khan book
that is drawn from my Web Page -- an essay
which, actually, is an excerpt from a 400-plus
page book on the issue of Spiritual Abuse and
the Sufi Tradition, but, instead, I will simply
encourage those who are interested to go to:
The Issues of Recognition
I believe this essay does begin to
demonstrate that the problem of
distinguishing between an authentic
and inauthentic spiritual guide
is quite difficult. The ramifications
and implications which ensue from the
need to make a correct discernment are
enormous.
The foregoing issues are not about the
differences in temperament, practice,
orientation, or emphasis which are
recognized and accepted among different
Orders and silsilahs. The central question
is about sources of spiritual abuse which
occur as obstacles to having access to
legitimate, athentic, and transformative
spiritual teachings, or which occur as
obstacles to having an appropriate sort of
understanding about what the nature of the
central problem is in such contexts.
Someone once said: "We become what we dream,
so choose the dream wisely." Choosing wisely
and with circumspection concerning the issue
of spiritual authenticity would seem to
possess the potential to have a substantial
impact on the nature of the dream which one
aspires to become.
None of what has been said in any of my three
postings says anything about whom or what one
should choose. Instead, what is being said is
that there is a very big problem inherent in
this question of spiritual authenticity, and
one should exercise caution and discretion in
exercising one's God-given right to choose in
whatever way one will in this matter.
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