More Warning Signs?
Someone posted a second set of
warning signs which indicate, supposedly,
that when such factors are present there is
a high likelihood of a potential for spiritual
abuse associated with the individual or group
who manifests the sort of characteristics that
are itemized in the warning list. As with the
previous posting of mine, the numbered
items below re-state those so-called warning
signals, and the Comments which follow them
are my responses to those points, but,. first,
I begin with some counsel concerning this
matter which is offered by Idries Shah.
Shah once raised the following question: "Q.:
By what signs in oneself can one tell whether a
teaching is the right one 'for me'?
"A.: By sensations and reactions which differ
*completely* from customary ones, indications
which one does not experience through the
contact with *anything* else. In contacting
mysticism, you are coming into a relationship
with a completely new experience. Its sensation
is correspondingly different from established
'religious or other experiences."
As with many things written and said by Idries Shah,
the foregoing is an exercise in how to appear to say
something, while, in fact saying nothing at all. One
reads his Q and A format, and when one is done,
one has no idea what is meant by "sensations and
reactions", or the meaning of "differ *completely* from
customary ones". If one goes insane, does this
qualify?
The foregoing question is not frivolous. There is
a substantial problem which is being alluded to
through it.
How does one distinguish between reality and
illusion and/or delusion? What happens when
one becomes entangled in someone else's
delusion or pathology - for example, that of
a false spiritual guide?
There are many kinds of possible anomalous,
non-ordinary, altered states of consciousness.
Experiencing such states and conditions does
not necessarily mean someone has undergone
a mystical event.
However, when one is under the 'guidance' of
an inauthentic guide, one is vulnerable to
the tendency within most of us -- that is, to
seek consensual validation concerning the
meaning and significance of one's experiences.
In other words, one has a strange experience
and dutifully reports it to one's 'teacher' who,
upon hearing the report, either smiles, and, says:
"what a wonderful blessing", or looks worried, and
says, "fortunately, I think we have caught this
in time."
The fraudulent teacher may provide an explanation
for the foregoing, or may remain mysteriously
silent concerning its supposed meaning, but, in
either case, one's sense of reality has been
framed by the teacher, and, therefore, ensuing
interpretations and understandings of experience
are shaped, colored and oriented by what the
teacher says or does. Under such circumstances,
the meaning of an anomalous, non-ordinary, altered
state of consciousness is whatever the so-called
teacher says it is, and if one has invested her or
his trust in such an individual, then, one is going
to believe that the answer to Idries Shah's
question of: "by what signs in oneself can one
tell if a teaching is the right one 'for me'" will
reflect what one's alleged guide says in response
to one's experiences.
Many people's understanding of the mystical way
and their experiences were re-framed through
the eyes of Idries Shah. Many people put their
trust in what he said. Many people derived their
idea of what was 'right for them' on the basis
of what Shah said to them through his books.
Many people labeled their experiences according
to how Shah induced individuals to understand
things according to how he believed the sensations
relevant to the Sufi Path were "correspondingly
different from established 'religious or other
experiences."
Unfortunately, for a lot of people, Shah often didn't
know what he was talking about. In fact, my very first
introduction to mystical ideas was through the writings
of Idries Shah, and in order to make progress on
the mystical journey - that is, once, by the Grace of God,
I found ... or was found by - an authentic mystical master -
I had to unlearn a lot of what I learned through
Shah.
Shah did poorly what people like Rene Guenon did
with a lot more scholarly rigor, accuracy, and spiritual
insight. Aside from the issues of knowledge and wisdom, a important difference between the two is that Shah was quite savvy about public relations and the nature of modern communication, and,
as a result, like an Internet virus, there came a time
when one could hardly turn around without seeing
an Idries Shah book in the religious section of a bookstore
or library -- even in rural areas. Of course, there often
were few, if any, authentic books on the mystical
tradition in these places, and, so, by default, the writings
of Idries Shah began to frame the ideas of many people
in the West concerning the nature of the mystical Path,
and in the process spread a great deal of disinformation
and misinformation concerning mysticism.
All one has to do is compare Shah with
many mystical luminaries of the past, and one realizes,
very quickly, that Shah was vertically challenged in a land of giants. So,
aside from the fact that the foregoing quote from
Shah is devoid of any useful content, I really don't
consider Shah a reliable indicator for helping people
to identify warning signs concerning spiritual abuse -
this is too much like appointing a fox to guard the
chickens.
1). "Being given an ultimatum, or being asked to
choose between two people or two courses of study
or two forms of behavior. Whoever asks you to choose
between him and others is the false 'Teacher'."
Comment: If one follows the counsel of the foregoing
warning sign, then, presumably, being asked to choose
between Satan and, say, Jesus should
make one nervous. Alternatively, if one is told to choose
between illusion and truth, or worldly pursuits and spirituality, then,
one, automatically, should avoid those people who indicate
or suggest that such a choice is necessary. Or, if one is
informed that it is necessary to choose between good and
evil, or morality and immorality, or someone intimates that
we must choose between waking up to the illusion of self or
continuing to sail through life in a somnambulistic state,
then, we should run away from such individuals.
Secondly, the very nature of taking initiation is an agreement
between two individuals. This agreement carries certain
responsibilities on the part of both individuals who enter
into it, and, consequently, there are principles of adab
which govern the interaction of those individuals.
If one is sincere and serious about spirituality, why would
one take initiation with someone and, then, do whatever one
likes? If one is committed to, and has love and respect for,
a given teaching and teacher, then, why would one suppose
that commitment, love, and respect don't possess a certain
binding authority which does not render one free to abandon
that relationship according to one's whims or likes and
dislikes.
The problem with initiation comes when the alleged teacher
turns out to be inauthentic. In fact, one of the most difficult
aspects of someone attempting to break free of spiritual
frauds is that the initiate tends to feel a strong sense of
obligation to honor the commitment one has made to the
alleged spiritual guide and, in the process, to serve that
commitment with integrity and honor.
Mysticism is not like a university where one travels
from teacher to teacher and takes whatever appeals
to one. Mysticism is a gateway to important truths
about the nature of reality, purpose, identity, and
self.
Such truths will never be accessed if one permits
one's own arbitrary judgments to be the final arbiter
of truth. One needs help in discovering the truth,
and the most essential form of this assistance
comes through the spiritual relationship of trust
which exists between seeker and teacher, and
one is not at liberty to jettison that relationship of
trust whenever one wishes.
This dimension of spiritual etiquette is not about authoritarian
fiats, any more than telling someone that they are
not free to abuse children or a spouse is an authoritarian
imposition. The nature of spiritual etiquette is a
function of what the Truth demands - rather than
being a function of either what the teacher or the
seeker wishes.
An authentic teacher may -- as a result of patience,
understanding, empathy, compassion, kindness,
tolerance, love, and forgiveness - permit a seeker
various degrees of freedom within which to commit
mistakes that are not necessarily corrected or pointed
out in any direct sense or even immediately. On, the
other hand, if a guide does not assist - whether overtly
or covertly - a seeker to learn how to discern the
truth amidst the shifting currents of the carnal soul, Satan, the world,
unbelief, illusion, and delusion, then, that teacher
is being remiss in her or his responsibilities to the
seeker.
Being responsible is not necessarily the same thing as
being authoritarian, even though, on occasion, they
may look very similar. Unfortunately, spiritual charlatans
take advantage of this and engage in authoritarian practices
while re-framing such activities in the guise of being a
responsible, caring, loving, ethical teacher.
2.) "If you are given anything to say or do in a language
foreign to you (in the West this means such things as
phrases in Persian or Arabic to repeat), this is done by
a false teacher."
Comment: What is the authority for such a statement? Where is the proof that establishes the validity of such
a claim? Why should one consider the foregoing contention
to be anything but the arbitrary prejudice of an individual who
is seeking to impose his or her hermeneutical framework
onto the discussion about what constitutes spiritual authenticity?
Such a 'warning sign' is itself a warning sign. One ought to
have a healthy skepticism concerning any counsel, such as
the one stated prior to this Comment, which is re-framed as
a 'helpful hint' while busily pushing it own, hidden agenda.
This sort of technique is employed by false guides a great
deal.
3.) "No true mystical meetings are held more than once a week."
Comment: I believe I once saw the foregoing as a headline
in this or that issue of the National Enquirer as I was waiting
in a checkout line at the local supermarket. If not, the
foregoing statement certainly deserves to be published in
that waste of wood, along with all the other gossip, innuendoes,
false statements and urban legends of our times.
I know of mystical groups than congregate together every night
during sacred months in order to break fast, and, then, they
return later in the evening to say special prayers. I guess they
must be associated with a false teacher. Similarly, these
same groups may come together several times during the
week when a series of auspicious occasions may occur
in addition to the usual weekly observances, and if we are
to follow the rule of thumb set down by the author of these
warning signs, then, I suppose it would be better to not
celebrate commemorative functions which acknowledge one, or
another, of the great saints of a mystical tradition just so that we
can be sure not to transgress the forbidden territory
of engaging in more than one spiritual function a week.
Now, if someone were exacting punishment, of some kind,
with respect to all those who did not attend such extra
sessions, or if tremendous pressure were being imposed
on people to attend such gatherings, this is an entirely
different matter. However, none of this was mentioned
in the foregoing warning sign, and, therefore, as it
stands it is woefully incomplete and just plain incorrect.