Identity
Someone asked about the identity of
several individuals. In one case, the
person requesting this information
wanted to know the name of an
individual who is spiritually abusing
individuals, and in another case, the
person seeking information wanted to
know if a certain shaykh and silsilah
were authentic.
The primary focus of this web site is
to offer support and assistance to
individuals who are seeking to
recover from the trauma of having
been spiritually abused by self-deceived
individuals claiming to be authentic
spiritual guides but who are not. With
respect to the issue of the identity
of the alleged shaykh who has betrayed
my trust and the trust of various other
individuals, knowing that person's name
or the name of his so-called tariqa would
not be of much value to anyone, and this
is so for a variety of reasons.
Among these reasons are the following.
The person goes by many names and,
consequently, being on the lookout for
one, or even several, names, would not
be very helpful - and toward the end of
my affiliation with this spiritually
abusive individual, he was encouraging all
of the people close to him to change their
names to English sounding names, and those
names often change according to circumstances.
The man lies about his name, identity,
place of birth, physical location,
and background. He induces those with
him to lie as well because he is teaching
them that as long as the ultimate cause
is a good one, it is OK to lie since this
serves the 'good' - and the 'good' is
defined as whatever the alleged shaykh
believes to be the case.
Many people on the Internet are being
lured in through an ever-changing set
of Internet groups, chat-rooms, personae,
web sites, and businesses. If people
were given only one name, that name
would not help them avoid the quicksand
which lies in wait for them through the
other multiple-identities.
This changling aspect with the names,
identities and bio-data appears to be
a relatively new development. The person
running things in this group is both evil
and extremely clever, and anyone who is
not trusted as 'one of them' is given very
little in the way of useful biographical
information and, in fact, people who are
on the 'outside' of things only come to
know about such things when there is a
momentary lapse in various security
measures which they use to conceal their
activities.
Once one has been 'converted' to their
mind- and heart-set (which comes after
one has been induced into an altered
state of consciousness that renders
people highly vulnerable to all manner
of exploitation and manipulation), then,
and only then, does information begin to
flow a little more freely with respect to
what is going on in the group - but even
here, there are circles within circles,
and each level has its own security codes,
so to speak, for gaining access to information -
and not even the closest, most 'trusted'
accomplices in this affair are made
privy to the many secrets which the ring
leader carries with him and through which
he directs operations. Indeed, the stories
he tells people - even supposedly close
mureeds - as to why things are being
done in a certain way rarely have anything
to do with the actual motivations for why
things are being done.
There is another reason for not divulging
a name in conjunction with this individual,
and this reason has to do with human nature.
When people are given a name and that name
is not the same as the one associated with
some alleged teacher with whom they are
spiritually affiliated, there is a tendency
for people to breathe a sigh of relief and
say words to the effect of: 'it's not my
teacher. I'm safe from spiritual abuse,'
when this is not necessarily the case.
Many years ago, Alan Watts came up with the
phrase "genuine fake". This refers to someone
who believes she or he is 'spiritually enlightened'
in some sense of this term, and for self-serving
purposes, deems herself or himself a guide
or teacher.
Such individuals are very sincere about what
they do, but they are, in effect, delusional.
They spend their lives going about enlisting
other people in that delusion.
There are a lot of people who are posing as
teachers and spiritual guides, but who are,
in truth, 'genuine fakes'. These counterfeit
shaykhs have gathered about them many, many
followers.
There is a Sufi teaching which runs along the
following lines. There are four kinds of
people.
There are those who know and know
that they know. These are the Prophets
and awliya of God, and we should seek to
follow such individuals as best our
individual spiritual capacity permits.
There are those who know but don't know
that they know. These people are asleep
and should be woken (through a genuine
spiritual guide).
There are those who don't know and know
they don't know. These people can learn,
so, they should be taught (again, by
genuine spiritual guides).
Finally, there are those who don't know
and don't know that they don't know.
These people are the ignorant and should
be avoided at all costs.
Spiritual ignorance is not a function of
the technical information with which one
may have facility. There are people who
have memorized the Qur'an who remain
spiritually illiterate and ignoranct.
There are people who spout reams of
poetry from: Rumi, Hafiz, Farid-ud-din
'Attar, and many others, but who have
hearts which are in darkness. There are
individuals who can discourse for hours
about the differences and similarities of
the doctrines of 'oneness of Being' and
'oneness of witnessing' of, respectively,
Hazrat Ibn al-'Arabi and Hazrat Ahmad
Sirhindi (may Allah be pleased with them
both), and still have no insight into
their own spiritual condition or the
condition of others.
Spiritual ignorance is a function of the
condition of one's nafs, heart, sirr,
ruh, kafi, and aqfah. If these inner
faculties have not been brought on line
and properly calibrated through the
assistance of an authentic spiritual
guide (which takes place through the agency
of nisbath), then, irrespective of whatever
words may come out of someone's mouth,
and irrespective of how eloquent, moving,
or even true those words may be, the
person who utters them does so through
the veils of spiritual ignorance and
can be of no real help to seekers after
the essential Self.
The disease of spiritual ignorance is far
more prevalent than many people suspect.
There are even some people who come to
this web site who suppose, spiritually
speaking, that they know what is what,
when, in fact, they do not, and, they are,
unfortunately, in denial about this reality.
There are some people who come to this web
site who do not believe they, personally, are
victims of, or have been victims of,
spiritual abuse because, for instance,
they have never been financially or
sexually exploited, while they ignore
the fact that they are affiliated with
a so-called spiritual guide who is either
an outright fraud or a 'genuine fake' and,
consequently, have not been given legitimate
authority to teach anyone. As bad as
sexual exploitation is when perpetrated by,
among others, alleged spiritual guides,
the real spiritual abuse is for someone to be
induced into believing that one is affiliated
with someone who can assist one to bring on
line and calibrate all one's interior spiritual
faculties when, in truth, this is not the case.
There are millions of people in North
America alone who presume they are affiliated
with a legitimate, authentic shaykh, but
they are not. Quite a few of these so-called
shaykhs are well-known and have published
materials which are circulating all about.
Less someone suppose that the foregoing
comments are so much sour grapes - or the
remarks of resentment from an embittered
individual who has been spiritually abused
and wishes for everyone else to join him
in misery, or the sentiments of an individual
who is envious of the spiritual happiness which
others may enjoy - think again. If someone
should suppose that I am doing the devil's
work by seeking to cast doubt into people's
lives in order to induce them to believe
that there are no authentic spiritual teachers,
then, think again, as well.
Despite my experiences, I do believe in the
reality of the mystical way. Despite my
experiences, I do believe there are some
authentic spiritual guides left in the
world - there just aren't as many of these
individuals left as people suppose.
Many individuals want to believe we live in
the best of times - that we are the most
advanced, aware, knowledgeable people who
have ever stepped foot on the face of the
Earth. Many people want to believe human
kind is continuing to evolve spiritually,
and are excited about what wonders this
evolutionary unfoldment will disclose in
the future.
In truth, spiritually speaking, we live in
the worst of times, and if we just look
about us, we can bear witness to this
reality every single day of our lives,
within almost every facet of our lives,
in every corner of the world. The world
is the way it is, because we are the
way we are.
We are not evolving as a species. We are
devolving.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon us)
has told us this would occur. This is why
he said to his Companions that if they
left out even one-tenth of what is
prescribed, they would not inherit
paradise, but there will come a time
when if the people of that time are able
to do even one-tenth of what is prescribed,
they will inherit paradise.
The Hadith concerning the Latter Days are
about the spiritual dissolution of human
kind, not its advancement. The spiritual
trend is -- with the exception of the
times when Prophets and special awliya of
Allah are present -- always downward,
and this has been so since Adam (peace
be upon him) and Eve (may Allah be pleased
with her) first set foot on this planet
and level of Being. The last saint, the
saint of the children, the descendent of
the Prophet Seth (peace be upon him),
the one who will call people to Islam and
the Path all his life and, yet, no one
will come, serves as testimony concerning
the foregoing claims. The fact that the
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) has
indicated that after Isa (peace be upon
him) does battle with the Dajjal and slays
the latter and lives for a certain number
of years during which there will be peace
on Earth and, then, passes away, that this
will be followed by a steady, precipitous slide
into spiritual darkness when human beings
become worse than the beasts, and this also
serves to support what has been said above.
Many people are caught up in well-ordered
delusions. The fact that a person believes
in the truth of such delusions or is convinced
those delusions are true, does not make them
so.
As far as passing judgment on the individual
named or the tariqa which has been identified
in your posting, this is not the business of
this group. We are not now, nor have we have
been, a clearinghouse for identifying authentic
and inauthentic shaykhs.
Someone has said that if one wishes to find out
about the character of an individual, then, go
on a trip with them. I went on a ten-twelve
year trip with someone who claimed to be an
authentic shaykh but was, and is, not what
he claimed (claims) to be, and only by taking
this trip was I able to discover the real nature
of this individual.
Most people who are affiliated with an alleged
shaykh, have never gone on a trip with that
individual - not even for a few days, let alone
years. One cannot gauge the spiritual mettle of
a person from long-distance or by reading their
books or listening to their discourses ... one
must get up close and personal, and this takes
time.
For some individuals, the amount of time necessary
to arrive at a conclusion about the spiritual
authenticity of a given, alleged shaykh is less
than for others. However, anyone who maintains
that he or she can take a few rules of thumb
and accurately evaluate someone's spiritual
condition, or anyone who claims to be able to
meet someone and know, right away, whether that
individual is authentic or not, is living in
a delusional state.
There is no substitute for direct, long-term
exposure to an individual. One needs to see
someone engaged in life across a wide variety
of circumstances to be able to have some sense
of what that person may be about and whether
that person is who they claim to be as far as the
title of shaykh is concerned.
Sometimes people do not make the effort to, first,
go on a trip of sorts with a person in order to
try to better judge the spiritual authenticity of
that individual. There are all kinds of logistical
and practical problems associated with making
such efforts, and, as a result, people want to
take short-cuts to the truth.
Sometimes, we get lucky, by the Grace of Allah,
and despite taking such risky short-cuts, we
find, or are found by, an authentic shaykh.
Sometimes, we are not so lucky, but as God has
wished and for reasons known only to Divinity,
then due to the short-cuts we take, we end up
with someone who betrays us spiritually. Sometimes
God wishes for us to go through difficulty
because this is the anvil of life on which we
are hammered in order to be shaped into useful
instruments for Divine purposes. Sometimes
mis-guidance is the fate we choose for ourselves,
and only Allah knows what the significance is
of the events in our lives.
Human beings are quite adept at jumping to all
kinds of conclusions about why this or that
happens, but rarely are these conclusions rooted
in any kind of deep understanding about the way
Divinity moves through Being or why - as was
once said by a seeker after truth 'You, God,
know our ways, but we do not know Yours.'
Whether we wish life to be this way or not,
things of a difficult, painful, problematic
nature continue to happen, for this is the
purpose of life - a testing ground through
which we are tried with evil and good in order
for our spiritual capacity to be given an
opportunity to unfold on the wings of Destiny.
Choice is, at least, a two-edged sword. And,
unfortunately, we do not always learn the
lessons that are necessary to properly wield
this sword to cut through to the truth of
things.
I can't tell you how to wield your sword to
cut through to the truth about either the
individual you mention, or the silsilah you
cite. Every individual has the responsibility
of doing this for himself or herself, and on
the Day of Judgment, Allah will inform us
about where human kind differed in such matters,
as well about who was right and who was wrong.
This is why spiritual legends such as Hazrat
'Umar ibn Khattab looked at a leaf and longed
to be relieved of the responsibility of being
human - for, the Fate which awaits us is
shaped by the choices we make. Choice is both
a tremendous opportunity, and a terrible
burden, with many, many ramifications - both
known and unknown.
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