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Anxiety Part One
Within each
of us, anxiety exists. It lurks in the chaotic caverns of our minds, coiled in
anticipation of the instant in which it will be free to strike - possibly, at the very
core of our Being.
Its presence
is ominously felt - constantly threatening each individual with varying degrees of
uncertainty. Many of us flee from station to station in life in the attempt to avoid being
in the presence of this phantom from within.
During the
last 50 years, or so, the issue of anxiety has undergone a significant amount of
transformation. What once was considered to be little more than a fringe nuisance that
entered our lives only occasionally, has, now, become, so"mething of a central problem in
the lives of many people.
"This
emergence of anxiety from an implicit to an explicit problem in our society, this change
from anxiety as a matter of mood to a recognition that it is an urgent issue
which we must at all costs try to define and clarify are ... the significant phenomena at
the moment."1
Freud was
not he first to investigate the 'problem of 'anxiety', but he was among the first to give
a psychological, rather than philosophical, explanation of the conditions in which anxiety
became manifest. He attempted to delineate the fundamental conditions and processes
through which anxiety was generated.
Many of
Freud's views changed with time, and his thoughts on anxiety did not prove to be an
exception to this general rule. At one time, for example, he agreed with Rank on the
fundamental importance of the birth trauma.
During this
period of his theoretical life, Freud felt that any accurate description of anxiety must
place a considerable amount of emphasis upon the role which the birth trauma played in the
life of each individual. Later, however, he reconsidered this position and decided that
the trauma of birth was not a crucial factor in the etiology of anxiety - rather, the
former was only a specific. example of a more generic principle.
While
criticizing Rank's thesis, Freud said:
"I am
forced to the conclusion that the earliest phobias of childhood do not permit of being
directly traced to the impression made upon the child by the act of birth. . . . . A
certain predisposition to anxiety on the part of the infant is indubitable. It is not at
its maximum immediately after birth, to diminish gradually thereafter, but first makes its
appearance later on with the progress of psychic development, and persists over a certain
period of childhood..." 2
Thus, Freud
by-passed the birth-trauma and looked elsewhere for what he considered to be the
fundamental, prototypic psychic context in which anxiety was rooted.
While
investigating the emotional contours of childhoods inner life, however, Freud came
across three types of experience which proved to be of special value to him in his
attempts to define anxiety. These three kinds of experience were: a) being left in the
dark; b) being left alone, and c) expecting to see, say, the mother's face and seeing,
instead, the face of a stranger. Freud believed that he tentative conclusions to be drawn
from each of these instances all pointed in the same general direction.
At birth,
and for a considerable period of time after birth, the individual is completely helpless.'
The 'mothering-one' must gratify the majority of the infant's needs, and, thus, the infant
is, in virtually every sense, functionally dependent upon the mothering-one.
If anything
were to endanger the vital mother-infant relationship, the infant is left without any line
of support. Therefore, according to Freud, the most basic fear of the infant child is one
of not having ones wishes gratified.
Since the
mothering-one is associated with past experiences of gratification (mnemic images of
perceptual identity), there is a displacement of felt-danger from the fear of not being
gratified to the fear of loss of the one who provides the desired satisfaction; i.e., the
mothering-one. In earlier stages of development, ungratified needs, and the increase in
felt tension which ensued from such unrequited wishes, represented a danger, but a time
comes when the absence of the mothering-one occasions this same feeling of danger.
Under these
circumstances, anxiety signifies the child's recognition (not necessarily conscious) of
his or her own helplessness. It constitutes an understanding, on however primitive a
level, about ones biological and psychological inability to cope with the prevailing
set of circumstances. Freud summarizes this situation in the following way:
"The
memory picture of the person longed for is certainly cathected in very intense degree,
probably at first in hallucinatory fashion. But this is without result and now it appears
as if this longing were transformed into anxiety. It decidedly seems as if this anxiety
were an expression of helplessness, as if the still very undeveloped creature did not know
what else to do with his longing."3
Freud
extends this 'loss of provider' theme to Rank's birth trauma and notes how both situations
share a common factor; namely, a detachment from the one who gratifies needs. In other
words, the intrauterine existence of the foetus can be considered as a biologically prior
stage in the continuum which began at conception and extended into the individual's
post-birth existence.
The main
characteristic of this continuum is dependence upon the mother. The biological foetal
dependency during intrauterine life is replaced by the individual's dependency upon the
psychic mother-object after birth.
This
fundamental fear of object-loss represented the ground upon which all other
'anxiety-veiled' fears were constructed. For Freud, whenever an individual displayed overt
symptoms of anxiety, the individuals conscious feeling were being shaped by
underlying or unconscious fears with respect to threatened or actual. loss of
'need-satisfaction' from a 'significant other' - i.e., someone (or something) on whom the
individual is dependent, in some sense of this word, for satisfaction of one's needs.
For Freud,
the problem, now, is to understand why the infant should have reason to fear the
possibility of object-loss at, all. There appears to be no a prior reason why an infant
will assume that the present circumstances (whatever it may entail) will, necessarily, be
characteristic of the universe in general.
For example,
if there is such a concept as an 'average' infancy (one in which most needs are satisfied,
yet, still marked or colored by a number of painful instances of ungratified need or
instances in which needs are not immediately satisfied), there is no obvious reason why an
infant should suspect that the mother will leave and not return. In fact, the child's
experience should point in just the opposite direction.
Presumably,
the conclusions to be drawn from an average infancy of the
foregoing sort is that, usually, most needs are satisfied and, sooner or later, there is a
reunion with the mother-one who may have been absent. In short, the 'average' period of
infancy and early childhood seemingly should be inclined in the direction of a basic,
underlying optimism concerning the satisfaction of needs and the presence of the
mothering-one. Naturally, the degree of this optimism varies from individual to
individual.
Obviously,
if one considered instances in which an infants needs were irregularly - and, then,
only partially - gratified, the infant's basic outlook might be quite different. Under
these circumstances, however, although the individual still is totally helpless and
dependent, there may be some reason to suspect that the infants relationship to the
mothering-one might not be as intense as the so-called 'average' infant's attachment might
be.
For example:
"Bowlby
and his colleagues believe that some degree of separation anxiety during the second year
indicates a close mother-child relation, for the child's anxiety signifies that he values
the mother presence and sees her as a nurturant person. The child who never displays such
anxiety may have . . . never experienced a continuous loving relationship or, more
frequently, the relationship he has had has been disrupted so severely that he has not
only reached but remained in a phase of detachment."4
In any
event, the question remains the same. Assuming there is no a priori evidence to indicate
that, in the future, the mother will act differently (e.g., to leave) than she has in the
past (e.g., generally satisfying the infant's needs), what prompts the infant to
anticipate object-loss?
Freud
believes such fears emerge because of the infant's awareness of the presence within him or
her of certain unacceptable thoughts, wishes, desires, etc.. The judgement of
'unacceptability' is a function of what the infant perceives to be acceptable and
unacceptable with respect to the parents.
For example,
the infant believes that if certain wishes become known to the significant other, the
significant other 'might (there are other possibilities) withdraw invested energy
which had previously been directed toward the satisfaction of the infants needs. The
infant experiences this as a 'loss of love', and Freud maintains that such a withdrawal
would be quite frightening to the infant.
According to
Freud, instead of consciously acknowledging the libidinal demands that are emerging from
the depths of the id, the infant's ego is often forced to inhibit the psychic advancement
of such demands for consciousness attention. Anxiety, under such circumstances, represents
a danger signal - a helplessness which activates repression. In this regard, Freud states:
"Anxiety
is an affective state which can, of course, be experienced only by the ego. The id cannot
be afraid, as the ego can; it is not n organization, and cannot estimate situations of
danger. On the contrary it is of extremely frequent occurrence that processes are
initiated or executed in the id which give the ego occasion to develop anxiety."5
There is
another direction from which one might approach the exploration of a child's psychic
condition. In contrast to the foregoing, however, the childs emotional state is only
indirectly concerned with any eventual loss of love from the mothering-one.
Nonetheless,
the conscious concerns of the child still are focused upon a recognized danger to the
child's relationship with his mother. The fear was that of being castrated. Adopting the
idea from his associate and friend, Ferenczi, Freud described the nature of this fear as
follows:
"The
high narcissistic value attached to the penis may be referable to the fact that the
possession of this organ contains a. guarantee of union with the mother (or mother
substitute) in the act of coitus. Deprivation of this member is tantamount to a second
separation from the mother, and this has again the significant (as in the case of birth)
of being delivered over helpless to the unpleasurable tension arising from the
non-gratification of a need."6
Later, Freud
extended this theme of punishment and contended that the specific fear of castration
eventually underwent a transition to a more indefinite dread of one's super-ego. This is
the conscience which one incorporates from the parental figures who, originally,
'threatened' castration, or, more correctly, from the parental figures who the child
believed (correctly or not), threatened castration.
Aside from
the fact that none of the foregoing adequately deals with the etiology of fear and anxiety
in women (and Freuds hypothesis of the Electra complex, in relation to woman, is far
less compelling than is his idea of the Oedipus complex in the case of men - and the
latter is not without its critics), the following points need to be emphasized. Although
one may be able to trace the origins of diffuse anxiety back to a specific situation of
childhood fear - and there is a range of possible candidates - for Freud, the factor most
characteristic of any fear concerned some form of separation from the one who is most
closely associated with gratification of the infant's needs. More-over, as Stein
indicates:
"This
particular situation was so painful that its memory had to be ejected from consciousness
('repressed'); the concrete fear was transformed into diffuse anxiety Thus, for Freudian
psychology, anxiety is fear which has lost its object."7
But
regardless of whether one is discussing fear, or its conscious precipitate, anxiety, one
is, necessarily, deeply rooted in the infant's or child's sense of basic helplessness and
dependency on others.
This brings
one to an interesting theoretical juncture. Although one might agree with Freud that fear
of castration is so painful that the memory of it must be repressed, one might not as
readily agree to the proposition that other kinds of fear also must involve repression.
Helplessness,
for instance, and the subsequent dependency which it fosters are accepted existential
facts. The infant who knows little else, knows8 what it means to be helpless
and dependent.
In a manner
of speaking, factors such as helplessness or dependency are too prominent and blatant to
be ejected from consciousness. For the infant or child, such themes represent the core
around which one begins to slowly build ones mental map of the world. They are the
two of the most outstanding characteristics of Being.
Moreover,
repression, as a defensive mechanism, seems to be accurately descriptive only of those
instances which involve unacceptable (either to the child or with respect to the child's
understanding of parental taboos) thoughts, wishes, desires, drives, etc. - in other
words, those ideas which, if acted upon, might threaten the infant with some form of
separation from the mothering-one or a permanent basis.
Helplessness
and dependency, per se, do not represent such a threat.9 Rather, they signify
the need for care from the mothering-one.
In
non-Freudian terms, helplessness and dependency give expression to the childs felt
need for loving, tender care. Consequently, although the child's sense of helplessness and
dependency may be painful, these feelings do not readily, if at all, fit into the type of
theoretical framework Freud has established for tying together repression and anxiety.
If one
accepts the foregoing contention, one can begin to develop a different approach to
phenomena such as 'separation-anxiety'. More specifically, if anxiety is described as that
conscious, affective precipitate of painful thoughts which have been repressed, then, the
term separation-anxiety' seems to be a misnomer.
The reasons
for making such a claim are easily accessible. For example, by the time
'separation-anxiety' appears as a general phenomena (between 12-18 months), the infant,
according to Piaget's studies on the child's construction of the world10,
already has begun to understand that objects possess a permanency, even outside of visual
presence.
Although the
mother represents a special value, she is still an object of sorts - albeit, an human
object. When the mother leaves, therefore, it is quite reasonable to assume that the child
perceives her as a valuable, permanent object for whose return he longs.
Furthermore,
there does not seem to be any theoretical justification for assuming that the child is not
in some way cognizant of the mother's absence, as well as, her or his feelings of
helplessness in the absence of the mothering-one. The various studies on separation all
tend to support this conclusion.
Thus, after
giving a summary account of much of the work that has been done in this area, Mussen,
Conger and Kagen stipulate the following:
"One .
. . source of anxiety in the young child, which seems wholly dependent upon learning,
involves an expectation of separation from sources of security and nurturance. . . . If he
anticipates that he has lost, or will lose, people or situations that perform `these
functions he may become anxious."11
For these
researchers, the term 'separation-anxiety' does not give expression to the child's
'conscious, affective preoccupation of painful thoughts which exist in conjunction with
repressed material. On the contrary, the presence of anxiety is a startling remainder of
the childs sense of helplessness.
For
the sake of simplicity, the Freudian overtones completely disappear from the term
'separation-anxiety' ; this ternm no longer accurately represent the child's 'conscious,
of fective precipitate of painful thoughts which have been repressed'. On the contrary it
represents a startling remainder of his helplessness.
Viewed from
another perspective, however, there is an element of helplessness - which one might refer
to as 'directionlessness' - that comes very close to a distinction Freud made in a context
somewhat detached from the issue of anxiety12. In Beyond The
Pleasure-Principle, Freud differentiated among fright, fear, and
apprehension in terms of their, respective, relationships to perceived danger.
"Apprehension
(Angst) denotes a certain condition as of expectation of danger and preparation for it,
even though it be an unknown one; fear (Furcht) requires a definite object of which one is
afraid; fright (Schneck) is the name of the condition to which one is reduced if one
encounters a danger without being prepared for it, it lays stress on the element of
surprise."13
Footnotes
1. Rollo
May, "Centrality of the Problem of Anxiety in Our Day", in Identity And
Anxiety, ed. by Maurice Stein, Arthur J. Vidich, and David Manning White; New York:
The Free Press; copyright: 1963. [Back to Text]
2. Sigmund
Freud, The Problem of Anxiety, New York: The Psychoanalytic Quarterly Press and W.
W. Norton &.Co., Inc.; copyright: 1936; p. 75.[Back to Text]
3. Sigmund
Freud, op. cit., p. 75-6.[Back to Text]
4. Paul
Mussen; John Conger; Jerome Kagan, Child Development and Personality; New York:
Harper & Row, Inc.; copyright: 1963; p. 213.[Back to Text]
5.Sigmund
Freud, op. cit. , p. 80.[Back to Text]
6. Ibid., p.
78.[Back to Text]
7. Paul J.
Stern, The Abnormal Perrson and His World; New Jersey: D. Van Nostrand Co., Inc.;
copyright: 1964; p. 28.[Back to Text]
8. I am
using the term "know" in a very loose sense - applicable to anyone who has
suffered through such a painful experience.[Back to Text]
9. Only at a
later stage of development might the theme of dependency become subject to repression -
for example, when an individual wants to assert his or her independence but discovers
that, in truth, one is still dependent, yet, cannot accept such a discovery and its
implications for self.[Back to Text]
10. Roger
Brown, Social Psychology; New York: The Free Press; copyright: 1965; pp. 195-245.[Back to Text]
11. Paul
Mussen; John Conger; Jerome Kagan, op. cit., p.222.[Back to Text]
12. Although
Beyond the Pleasure-Principle does not deal with, anxiety, per se, it does contain
the general distinction which Freud made between fear and anxiety (Angst).[Back to Text]
13. Sigmund
Freud, A General Selection From The Works Of Sigmund Freud, ed. by John Rickman,
M.D.; New York: Doubleday & Co., Inc.; copyright: 1957; p. 199.[Back to Text]
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